Saturday, January 31, 2009

Social Networking: Just Friends?

Recently on Facebook (any collegian's best friend and time-waster) I've noticed a fairly new trend, in which various friends write 25 things in a note and tag other friends, who in turn post notes of their own. I don't necessarily have any +/- feelings on this particular phenomenon, nor is that the point of this post. I was simply curious as to the origin of this particular trend. With MySpace, such trends are often commonplace, if not somewhat expected. Why now? Why with notes on Facebook? Part of what inspired this particular blog is the unexpectedness of this note thing. To be fair, I too wrote a note about this particular topic, but in writing, I found that it is rather hard to conjure up 25 things about one's self. In addition, it raises the prickly problem I (and I'm sure it is by no means restricted to me) have with social networking sites. At what point do our private and public lives separate? Where is the line between appropriate and "over-sharing" get drawn? I found myself wondering about that as I went through my own list.
Anyway, to those of you interested in what I deemed random enough to share, here is the list in all its glory.

1. I love the word potato. And pistachio. I have no idea why.
2. I have full-on dialogues with myself (posing/answering questions) even with others around.
3. Rather unfortunate, but I am a hopeless romantic.
4. I hate sharing a bed. But I can sleep anywhere.
5. I sleep like a rock.
6. I have really random, often disturbing thoughts about things.
7. I have real issues with my weight, and cannot stand the nickname "Big Boy."
8. I would love to move back to Texas.
9. I love watching movies. I know no one else that has seen as many movies that I have.
10. I am excellent speller, and cannot stand (I mean it) when other people misspell things. Its so irrational but there it is.
11. I tend to regret a lot of things, and wish that I was a better person sometimes.
12. I wonder what people think about me, and how I get related to other people by my friends and acquaintances.
13. I wonder if I can think of 25 random things about myself.
14. I am one of the biggest nerds you could meet.
15. I love comic books (and graphic novels), and can read them all night and day.
16. Encyclopedic knowledge frequently coincides with occasionally epic failures.
17. I can sleep all day and stay up all night.
18. I love not sleeping. Its so bizarre, but sometimes I like to see how long I can go without sleeping.
19. I would like to rob a bank.
20. I am really rather secretive. I keep them well, and like secrets for some reason.
21. One of my all-time favorite things to do is to lay out on the sidewalk on really hot days and soak up the warmth.
22. I can't swim in bodies of water where I can't see the bottom.
23. I have been religious and atheistic at different times in my life.
24. I am left-footed, left-handed, and generally prefer things on the left or that associate with the left-hand side.
25. I have a coin that I regularly use to decide things.

2 comments:

  1. @ 9. I challenge you sir! And what did you think of the Oscar picks?

    @ 22. That is your body warning you not to be stupid.

    @ 25. And I have a friend who likes to dress up with a purple coat and face makeup, I think you two would get along.

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  2. I thought the Oscar picks were, for the most part, okay. A little disappointed Wall-E didn't at least get a Best Picture nod (hey, it was THAT good) and Dark Knight not seeing much of any love, but that might just be the fanboy talking.

    As for the swimming bit, I think it may be chalked up to reading too many books, whose subject could well be described as "Things that live in the ocean that can kill you."

    I see nothing wrong with letting chance decide things that have no consequence. But if you tell me that I choose, I will hurt you. It would also be an amazing, if not time-consuming, Halloween costume. Be advised.

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